Friday, September 7, 2012

Training Fortune

“Let us train our minds to desire what the situation demands.”
Can I have Alice, PLEASE?!
I have certainly begun a new chapter in my life…I have taken a greatly reduced role in the ministry work I have worked in for the last 9 years, I am working a full time job at a community college, and now I am also a very part time student with a husband who travels 50% of the time and despite all his hard work, layoffs are coming down the pike.
What I want…I want to be independently wealthy without a care in the world. I want to sleep until noon, have a housekeeper named Alice who will take care of me and my family, I want to already have my Master’s degree instead of working on my Associate’s! I want to wake up tomorrow and be completely fit and be able to eat whatever on this planet I crave!

However, that is not my reality.
My situation demands something completely different than what my mind wants.

What does my situation demand? It demands frugal living, time management, dietary discretion, organization and a drive to succeed.

These are not wants…these are not idle “I wish” things – these are demands that I must fulfill. But, my mind falls back into its whiny brat mode and stomps its feet to have its way. Pitches a little hissy fit – Jeesh, my mind can be such a PAIN!
If I let my bratty brain have its own way….I shudder to think!

“Let us train our minds to desire what the situation demands.”
How on earth do I go about this? Buy (NO – borrow from the library) a self-help book? Search internet blogs with tips and suggestions? Rejoin FlyLady (that is actually a REALLY good idea!) and take baby-steps to getting my brain trained?

I know that with each baby-step I take towards training my bratty brain, my heart will desire the results and that will help train my mind even more.
I really don’t want to make myself out to seem like this lazy, unmotivated person – because in reality, I’m not. I have a strong work ethic, a drive and determination to move forward with my life, a hunger to learn and have a happy family life.

So…in essence my mind is already trained to some extent, I just have bratty brain moments.

Sometimes, it is just hard to see the forest for the trees when I am in the thick of it and simply want to take a break from the world for a moment.
“Let us train our minds to desire what the situation demands.”

So, bratty brain…you’ve had your hissy fit for the night and it’s time to head to bed!
Live, Laugh, Love ~

Vanilla Mama
PS – I NEED to train my brain to buy lottery tickets, I think the situation demands it (but, I guess it doesn’t count as being frugal – sigh!)!
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1 comment:

  1. First of all it is time for hugging - - - I mean blogger friend's hug. I wish I lived near by, but again I have to tell myself that it is not a reality. Man - - I have been away from blogger so long that I feel like I slept forever. Never mind, that's me. Let's talk about yourself. I mean making you feel better about the realities of life. Let's start with a plan. How about every now and then- - say every fortnight you plan a terrific treat for yourself. Then after working your undesirable schedule of two weeks give yourself that treat. It does not have to be huge, something like a Broadway show or even a local Paramount type of thing or if that is something you don't like how about booking an hour at a Spa and being a little shallow. Whatever it is that you fancy, make it happen as a reward for putting up with realities. Even a fancy box of Chocolate. Don't let finances louse it up. Talk about this and may be hubby kins will coordinate something good.


And your thoughts???